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Published on April 21, 2024
San Antonio Report Encourages Parents to Embrace 'Base Camp' Concept as Kids Leave for CollegeSource: Unsplash/ Charles DeLoye

As high school seniors nationwide prepare to don caps and gowns, parents are facing the daunting prospect of an "empty nest," but some are pushing for a new perspective on this chapter of life. A recent piece in the San Antonio Report challenges the negative connotation of becoming an empty nester, suggesting instead that parents view their role as a "base camp" for their departing children.

With their daughter set to graduate and their son already in college many parents, like the unnamed author of the San Antonio Report article, are reevaluating what it means to have an adult child leave the home, the article's imagery of an "empty nest" conjures thoughts of a "half-empty" experience but it's being rejected in favor of a narrative that celebrates new beginnings. This rebranding is grounded in the concept of a base camp – a critical support hub for climbers preparing to tackle peaks and face their own personal challenges, which seems far more fitting for modern parents.

The author relates this to personal experience, growing up in Durango, Colorado, near the San Juan mountain range and understanding the importance of a supply-filled base camp to mountaineers. This metaphor aligns with the role of parents as they prepare their children for independence, equipping them with the tools and support to succeed in their own adventures. The significance of this transition is akin to the biblical narrative of Moses, who from his base camp, guided his people and shared divine commandments at Mount Sinai, nurturing their journey just as parents do for their children.

While the nest may physically become emptier, parents are finding solace in the idea that their purpose is not diminishing, rather it is merely shifting, as they continue to advise, support, and empower their children from afar. The author poignantly notes "you are entering a new phase of life: one with renewed purpose, infused with years of experience and wisdom," according to the San Antonio Report. It's a sentiment that may offer comfort as parents nationwide adjust to their homes feeling simultaneously emptier and richer with the potential for new growth.