In a rare calendrical coincidence that's stirring up conversation among the faithful, Valentine's Day and Ash Wednesday are slated to clash on February 14 this year. Romance and religious obligation will have to find some common ground, as many Catholics will be observing the start of Lent with fasting and abstinence on a day typically filled with chocolates and romantic dinners.
According to the Providence Journal, Bishop Richard Henning made clear that no dispensation will be issued for the holiday, urging Catholics to "renew our commitment to divine love and be reconciled by the grace of the Lord Jesus." The same article noted that Catholics are expected to fast and abstain from meat, with Ash Wednesday holding precedence over Valentine's Day festivities. The directive suggests wining and dining on Mardi Gras, the day before Ash Wednesday, instead.
While the commercial aspect of Valentine's Day might seemingly take precedence in popular culture, its origins lie deep within Christian traditions. The Detroit Free Press reminds us that Valentine's Day venerates St. Valentine, the martyr known for his acts of love and kindness. The article elaborates on how some Christians choose to commemorate Lent through acts of charity as opposed to abstaining from treats.
Those who were hoping to enjoy a steak dinner or indulge in some sweets may have to to quickly adjust their expectations. As per Canon Law 1251, cited by Religion Unplugged, abstinence from meat and fasting are obligatory on Ash Wednesday. Meanwhile, the same source references OSV News columnist Simcha Fisher, who argued that "Ash Wednesday is way more important than Valentine's Day, so it gets first dibs on your time."
Despite the importance of Ash Wednesday, there's room for personal decisions. “I will do both,” Nick Sacco, an 80-year-old New Yorker, told Detroit Free Press concerning his plans to attend Mass earlier in the day and possibly enjoy some chocolate later. This sentiment might resonate with many who believe in honoring religious traditions while acknowledging the universal celebration of love.
It's not just about whether to feast or fast, as Shrove Tuesday is equally noteworthy on February 13. Known for its association with pancakes and indulgence before the Lenten season begins, it may just serve as an alternative for those wanting to celebrate in excess before the fasting ritual kicks in.
